Think about the people in your life that you adore. It might be a friend, a parent, a sibling or a grandparent. What is it about them that make you love them and care about them so much? Is it their sense of humor, their strength, their honesty or their selflessness?

It may be easier to see these qualities in others, but you also have amazing qualities that others may adore about you. Most of us want to be adored. We want to find that special person who cares about us and loves us unconditionally. By exhibiting certain qualities, you can attract a person who genuinely adores you.

True love is not a strong, fiery, impetuous passion. It is, on the contrary, an element calm and deep. It looks beyond mere externals, and is attracted by qualities alone. It is wise and discriminating, and its devotion is real and abiding.” – Ellen G. White

  1. Be Yourself

We are all nothing more than an embodiment of pure love, and to create something outside of that only creates a temporary shell. Don’t be afraid of who you are, you’re absolutely, authentically beautiful

Nothing is more attractive than someone who is comfortable in their own skin. Embrace your quirks. Learn to love the parts of you that you once considered flaws. Never apologize for being yourself. The person you attract will adore you for who you are – an authentically beautiful human being.

  1. Be Honest

Even the most uncomfortable honesty shows that you have confidence, and that is a very attractive feature. Being a dishonest person shows others that you are selfish and manipulative. Honesty is truly the best policy. Being honest doesn’t mean you need to be judgmental. You can be honest while still showing compassion and acceptance. Your unfiltered honesty will attract someone who adores you for always speaking the truth.

Be honest your actions. Anything else will not give you a desirable result in the long-term.

  1. Have A Sense Of Humor

Having a good sense of humor is a quality that can attract adoration. Life can be hard and overwhelming at times. Keeping a sense of humor can help you get navigate the up’s and down’s. It can also help you cheer up your friends when they’re feeling down.

If you see someone without a smile give them one of yours. You don’t stop laughing because you grow old. You grow old because you stop laughing.

  1. Practice Selflessness

Being selfless in a selfish world is an attractive quality all on its own. Those who are selfless are the ones who change the world. They earn the respect and adoration of the people around the, because they are willing to carry the heaviest burden for the greater good.

In fact, some of the greatest leaders the world has ever seen like Jesus; Buddha; Gandhi; Mother Teresa; Nelson Mandela; Martin Luther King have all been some of the most selfless people we’ve ever known about.

  1. Be Open-Minded

It’s OK to have strong thoughts, opinions and beliefs. But the world is constantly evolving, and we are evolving along with it. Staying open-minded to new thoughts and ideas may prove to be essential in attracting someone who adores you. You can still stand up for what you believe while being loving and accepting toward others at the same time. Don’t be afraid to challenge the norm and open up your mind to the possibility of something new.

  1. Be helpful

No one is useless in this world that lightens the burdens of another.  Most likely, you weren’t too attracted to that person. Being a helpful person is an incredible trait that this world needs desperately.  Problems like poverty, hunger, and other social ills could be solved very fast if only more people would decide to use their time for others when they have it. Sometimes, a simple 2-3 hours of your time can make a world of difference in the community.

If you don’t have the time, simple donate a few dollars where you can when you can. There are many volunteer organizations in your community that are always looking for help in any way they can get it.

A person’s most useful asset is not a head full of knowledge, but a heart full of love, an ear ready to listen and a hand willing to help others.

  1. Practice Humility

The phrase “actions speak louder than words” is all too true. Being around people who remain humble despite their accomplishments or social status is a breath of fresh air in today’s world. Bragging and constantly putting yourself up on a pedestal won’t make you attractive to the right people. Instead, practice humility. Those who quietly and humbly work to make the world a better place are adored by many.


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