Most of the time our lives are anything but perfect but there comes a time when you find your significant other , anything about her is fairytale-perfect to you amidst all their imperfections. Even though the definitions cant define a good woman for you, you’ll see some subtle signs and will feel some good vibes. That’s universe telling you “Dude she is THE ONE !”
So we listed some signs which can be interpreted as signs of a good woman :
“No man succeeds without a good woman behind him. Wife or mother, if it is both, he is twice blessed indeed.” – Harold Macmillan
- SHE INSPIRES YOU TO BE A BETTER PERSON.
As the saying goes “ Behind every successful man there’s a successful woman” ,the right woman for you will be source of positive energy . She makes you think that absolutely nothing is impossible. She guides you and helps you to reach your goals and dreams.
A study found in the journal , “Personal Relationships”, looked into how couples affect a person’s sense of self.
• Apparently humans have an inherent nature to connect with another person for the purpose of self-expansion.
- This is not just about recognizing the positive traits of your partner but also taking on these traits.
- For an instance, if you are attached to a charitable person, you’re likely to become charitable too.
All in all a healthy relationship is where you and your partner are happy and motivate each other to achieve the best
2. SHE UNDERSTANDS YOUR DIFFERENCES
A sign of a good woman is that she will not drag minute issues about you when you go through a rough patch in your relationship. She would be mature enough to get the misunderstandings clarified.
Also, she will understand that there will be differences in opinions . So she wont disrespect you since she knows that it’s ‘human’ to have such differences in every healthy relationship.
3. SHE WILL BE YOUR BIGGEST FAN.
She will be there when you go big in life and when you hit the ground. She’ll be more than excited when life awards you with opportunities. Simply, you’ll find a new best friend.
However that might not stop her from being your biggest critic. She will be true to herself and will always give you constructive criticism. She will only do this because she wants whats best for you and because she cares for you.
4. SHE MAKES YOU FEEL LUCKY TO BE WITH HER.
Her positive energy and the unconditional love will leave you telling ‘Jackpot’ to yourself. You’ll sometimes be stunned that she chose you out of all the men she meets.
Below mentioned points are extracted from the book “How Luck Happens: Using the Science of Luck to Transform Work,Love, and Life” . It says that people who give off a good vibe can maintain a great relationship. So, you are one lucky guy.
- If a woman makes you feel lucky, she is someone you can settle down with for life.
- Even when the romance fades away,as many relationships do, you will still feel fortunate to be with a good woman.
- This is because she helps you focus on the positive things.
5. SHE’S NOT INSECURE.
She won’t be the insecure type who gets jealous whenever you talk to someone of the opposite gender. She’ll understand and respect your lifestyle since she knows that there are other aspects and relationships in your life that you should fulfill and maintain.
Rather than being bitter about your friends she’ll make it her habit to talk to and hang out with your closed ones and acquaintances.
She won’t be stressed or sad over some insecurities because the right woman knows her worth and deep down she knows that she’ll never have to question your loyalty.
6. THE RIGHT WOMAN WON’T DO THINGS TO MAKE YOU FEEL ENVIOUS.
She will be mature enough not to play games and have hidden agendas because if the base of the relationship is strong there’ll be no need to play tricks and mind games. One of the other reasons she might not do things to make you jealous is that she knows that tricks and mind games are not the way to get ‘revenge’ . She’ll always communicate.
According to a study in the “Journal of Social and Personal Relationships “, jealousy is actually a common manifestation of a dissatisfaction and a conflict in a relationship.
- A good woman won’t manipulate your emotional state to get a reaction from you.
- If she actually has issues, she will sit down and have a good talk with you because communication is the key !
7. SHE HAS HER OWN GOALS BUT SHE REGARDS YOUR RELATIONSHIP AS A TEAM.
Apart from being your biggest fan and the most honest critic at times, a good woman has a lot of goals and has a vision in her life . She’ll be achieving her own goals and cheering you on at the same time . She will be focused about the future and will give you stability in life. You and her will be the team to embark to a world full of challenges.
- According to a study in the “Journals of Family Theory & Review”, couples who can easily switch from thinking as an individual and then as a team can have a long-lasting relationship.
- They pour their energy into doing things together to improve the relationship even if they each have individual goals and dreams.
- They frequently discuss their relationship and evaluate where they are, where they are heading and what issues they have to resolve.
8. SHE ALLOWS YOU TO HAVE YOUR ‘ME TIME’.
As discussed earlier, a good woman knows her way around you . She doesn’t smother and cling to you 24/7 because she knows every individual needs time to themselves. She will let you take care of other things in your life and won’t depend on you the whole time.
For an example , she won’t be bothered if you have the night out with the boys and come home a little late. She loves it if you spend time with your family. She’s not insecure or worried that you will drift apart every time she gives you space.
It’s crucial to spend time with your partner when you are in a relationship. But she is not immature to not understand that the space will help you both to think for yourself and evolve into much better persons. If you feel that life is good when you’re with and without your partner, you are striking a perfect balance in your life and relationship.
9. SHE KNOWS THE IMPORTANCE OF PHYSICAL INTIMACY.
According to a study in the “ Journal of Sex Research” , revealed that people in good long-term relationships do not have a decreased desire for each other.Despite their busy lives, they still remain attracted and are deeply connected emotionally.They also have a good rhythm of verbal and non-verbal communication.
According to Experts’ ideas couples who’ve been together for quite sometime, it might be a good idea to schedule their time for intimacy since it will ignite excitement in the bedroom. There by the Experts believe that the relationship will be long lasting and healthier.
10. SHE GETS ALONG WITH YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY.
Her positive and approachable personality makes it easy to get along with almost anyone of your side, some people who even knew you before her.
She won’t be the one to ruin all the other relationships for the sake of ‘love’ . She is the type of person who won’t pull you away and won’t try to have you all to herself.
Not only that you’ll even see the positive reaction of your family and friends and their eagerness to have her joining family functions and whatnot. You wont be hesitant to introduce her to your family because you knew she would impress your clan and easily connect with them.
11. A GOOD WOMAN DOESN’T HAVE UNREASONABLE RELATIONSHIP EXPECTATIONS.
She won’t be high maintenance and immature enough to have unreasonable expectations from you since she herself knows that your life’s sole purpose is not to make her happy. Rather, you make her happy because it’s the perk of being in a good relationship. She will not blame you when things go wrong and she’ll always remember that its you and her against whatever the problem is.