Sometimes, the society we live in can be too pressuring. It tells us how to dress, how to behave, how to talk, how to live. It even tells us what kind of relationships we should have.
Actually, who has the right to tell you what to do? You have got an amazing opportunity to live the way you want. And why waste this golden opportunity caring for what society thinks? So stop thinking about what they tell you, and start being yourself. That’s how you’ll make the most of your life.
Do you want to know the shortest way to find happiness?
Do whatever the hell you want to.
This is easier said than done. Especially if you are someone who thinks about others before yourself. Indeed you are the one who tells your friends to follow their heart, but when it comes to your own life, do you follow your own advice?
You need to stop waiting around for miracles to happen. You need to start doing things and cutting off the negativity out of your life. You should start doing what you love, what you dream of. Do not think about what others say. One step in the right path will make a huge difference.
There will always be people who disagree, who see the wrong in what you do. But this should not stop you from doing what you love. This shouldn’t stop you from living the life you deserve. The truth is, if they really love you, they will support you no matter what,
And it is not hard to start doing what you love. Do you want to see a movie? Go book a ticket. Feel at odds with your group? Meet new people. It is as simple as that.
If you are unhappy about your life, it is up to you to change it.
The answers are already in you. All you have to do is look into yourself and have a real talk with your inner self. And if you are not the talk-to-yourself kind of person, diaries and journals are the way to go. And also, undoubtedly, there is someone in your life who will always be there for you. All you have to do is talk with these people.
Most of the time those who are around you have no idea about what is going on in your head. They may assume that they know you more than you know yourself, but they are probably wrong. No one knows you better than you do, and that is why it is important to listen to yourself.
And even if you make mistakes on the way, it will be a good lesson. Failure will strengthen you, it will make you humble, and it will accompany you. So don’t hesitate to do whatever you want to do. That is the only way to success.
Remember, you do not have to fit into society’s categories.
You are free to be whoever you want to be, you are free to like whoever you want to like, and you are free to do whatever you want to do. It doesn’t matter who approves and who doesn’t. What matters is that you find your confidence.