It’s easy to get swept off your feet in a new relationship. But it’s really hard to be the same person throughout the life though. The signposts of a future breakup are many, but most people don’t realize what those look like. So, we want to provide you with some things to look out for that signify a broken or ill-fated relationship.
So here we start with
- You don’t talk about the future together.
One of the signs of relationship not working anymore is if you’ve been dating for a while but haven’t talked about your future. For instance, if you’ve been living together for 18 months but your partner refuses to discuss marriage, it could be a big red flag. Does he find it difficult to communicate properly, or does he actually not see any future with you?
- There’s no honesty and openness
Every couples don’t want to be open, some they won’t share everything with their loved ones
Mature relationships allow partners to be forthcoming and open with each other because of their level of intimacy. It becomes a big problem, therefore, when you hide stuff from their partner or when you feel you cannot be fully yourself with him
hiding feelings can happen because there is no trust.
- You don’t like your partner’s friends.
This might happen in many couples though. The company you keep defines who you are. People are usually drawn to make friends with folks who like the same things they like or have the same qualities they have. So, if you don’t like his friends, this can be one of the signs of breakup because that relationship won’t last. Why? You’re likely going to discover more things about him that you might not like as well. Remember, friends reflect who you are.
- here’s no give and take.
In the same way as giving value to your choices, how often do you compromise? Who is always the first to make up and apologize when you have a misunderstanding? And must probably it will end in ego though.
- Your partner treats other people poorly.
People always put their best foot forward at the beginning of relationships, but you should always pay attention to your partner’s behavior towards other people. For example, how does he treat waiters? How does he act toward his parents or co-workers? If you’re going to be in a long-term relationship with this person, you will have ups and downs. And when the love and affection aren’t there, how will he treat you? Your relationship might not have much of a shot if he’s this way.
- You’ve been in the relationship just for the passion.
Passion has brought you together as a couple but what happens when that mellows down? If you haven’t experienced a strong connection in other areas, then it’s not going to become long-term. For a new relationship to flourish, it needs to go beyond the physical connection. You should be emotionally and mentally connected as well. So, if you feel that you’re in this together for the passion only, it’s probably best to end the relationship because that kind of connection won’t last long.
“If conversation was the lyrics, laughter was the music, making time spent together a melody that could be replayed over and over without getting stale.”